tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52210494423745056622024-02-18T21:46:10.398-08:00Jo's CafeJoannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-80978028110671041592008-06-24T22:49:00.000-07:002008-06-24T23:03:01.861-07:00McDonaldsRonald McDonalds at Metrotown not only has a new look, it also got very enhanced technology. Yesterday I had my annual visit to the restaurant before heading to Superstore to get some grocery. When I looked at the menu, I noticed they have Angus beef burger, I guess it's worth to give it a try. So I got the AAA class Angus burger, and an ice coffee! Yes, not Sprite this time, it's ice coffee! One stop shop for Vera's Burger and Starbucks! yay...<br />After I finished my meal, I chucked the trash as usual. Guess what! there's a red light on the trash bin. It went "bzzzzz" for like a minute, then went off and the door started to close. I wonder what it does. Did it eat up my junk?Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-77981522246015343952008-03-09T16:33:00.000-07:002008-03-09T16:56:54.704-07:00A lonely quiet SundayIt has been ages since I updated this blog. Mainly because of work. Since I got into my new role, I could hardly find time to concentrate on doing anything at all. RSP season was one of the great event that drove everyone crazy. We got to stay until 8:00pm for the last 3 nights and had really good free dinner. First night was pizzas...yummy! Second night we had Greek food, and I got my special order of lamb souvlaki. When I was about to pass out on the 3rd night, we had Thai food..yay! The spicy sauce really woke me up. <br /><br />When the crazy days were finally over, our boss treated us a dinner at Chilli Pepper House, which specializes in East Indian Chinese dishes. <br /><br />It's Sunday today, why am I sitting here? I was supposed to be at church this morning, but I totally forgot to change the clock. Daylight savings already...<br /><br />Ray is at work. Why does he go to work 7 days a week? Being busy is not a reason...even if we spend 24 hours at the office, things still won't get done. Life is short, but work is endless.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-51244412192603873692008-01-08T22:14:00.000-08:002008-01-08T23:00:31.873-08:00Happy 2008!Finally got a chance to sit down and write. It has been awhile since I could even get a moment to sit down infront of the computer because Ray's butt has been thumbtacked onto this chair ever since he's on vacation...either MSNing or doing his Lumosity sessions...arrgggggg!!<br /><br />The last two weeks has been very hectic. Christmas shopping with my picky "boss" was so tedious...since the way we spend and think are very different, another proof that men are from Mars women are from Venus. I guess God put us together so that we can learn to compromise and accept each other. <br /><br />During this 2 week vacation, I also spent alot of quality time with Caitlyn. She's starting to build up her vocabs by listening to us and repeating what we say. Communicating with her is becoming very interesting and entertaining. Can't wait until my next vacation :)Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-30151170751439835812007-11-28T18:47:00.000-08:002007-11-28T19:13:37.380-08:00It's Official!Another staff announcement made yesterday. It's my turn this time. My goal of becoming an Account Manager is finally fulfilled. Thanks to our greatest Father for granting me such a wonderful Xmas gift. I also want to thank my beloved hubby for his support and encouragement, and of course, baby Caitlyn is my biggest driving force for working so hard to earn this. I know the path ahead of me is a tough one, but life is all about taking chances. Letting go of one great opportunity to achieve another is inevitable.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-39761513266481267822007-10-30T21:38:00.000-07:002007-10-30T21:46:55.431-07:00Some Strange ThoughtsThree kinds of fruits on a plate, persimmon, orange, and apple. It just came natural for me to eat my favourite persimmon first, then orange, and I'd finish up the apple. But when I looked at hubby who sat next to me, he had orange first, then apple I believe. I know he likes persimmon, but he would save it. What does this tell me? Obviously he's the type of person who likes to save up for retirement. I guess the way people eat tells alot about their personality.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-10521838305708400342007-10-21T21:48:00.000-07:002007-10-21T22:23:57.068-07:00Happy Surprised Birthday to Ray!After spending 2 days thinking about where to go for dinner on Ray's birthday, I decided on a fine dining restaurant that overlooks Coal Harbour. I thought, this is supposed to be good...good reviews, great ambiance. So I made the reservation 2 days in advance and even confirmed the time before we left. I only gave Ray the direction to the restaurant, I didn't want to tell him the name because I want to give him a surprise and wow him. So there we were, drove all the way to Denman street and paid $8 for parking, walked over to the restaurant. Then I realized something was wrong...how come the name is different...errrr...didn't seem right to me...the address was right though. But I went ahead and walked into the restaurant and was greeted by some Japanese. "Is this Bravo Bistro?" They looked at me and said, "this used to be Bravo Bistro, but they closed down half year ago" I couldn't believe what I heard, I was 100% sure that I made the reservation, how could this happen? 2 possibilities: 1. I made the call while I was dream walking. 2. I was on crack.<br /><br />After a few urgent phone calls to friends, I got the restaurant's contact and found out that it's not Bravo, it's a Moroccan Restaurant located in gastown. Nice! BIG surprise for Ray and I did WOW him. Thanks to Entertainment Book!Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-51190101186868275472007-10-20T21:31:00.000-07:002007-10-21T22:22:30.270-07:00Caitlyn is Walking!After 15 months, Caitlyn finally has the courage to take her hands off the furniture. She's now able to walk freely around the house. Watching her walk back and forth transporting her toys is amazing...I would be satisfied just standing there all day and look at her.<br /><br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:16/babycaitlyn/16.flv/8fdwXxmI9sFli8MjuTFaYA/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=16&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://babycaitlyn.multiply.com" wmode="transparent" height="395" width="480"></embed><br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="480" height="395" FLASHVARS="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:17/babycaitlyn/17.flv/2cq63LNaIWolalhbb0IjHg/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=17&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://babycaitlyn.multiply.com" wmode="transparent"></embed>Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-84881586814037316352007-09-26T16:59:00.000-07:002007-09-26T17:41:07.473-07:00I Overheard...A husband and his wife were happily shopping at the mall. I overheard the following conversation:<br /> <br />Hubby: You look chubby in that outfit!<br />wife: ignoring his comments<br />hubby: (after 3 mins) you walk like an old woman in those heels.<br />wife: ignoring still....<br />hubby: you have so many fine lines, you should work on your facial mask<br />wife: no comment...<br />hubby: you have no fashion taste, your clothes don't look nice.<br />wife: .........<br /><br />After dinner:<br /><br />hubby: you're not allowed to have the whole mini ice-skin mooncake! you eat too much, you're too overweighed. You always have big lunches...you eat more than I do....blah blah <br />wife: exploded!! finally...Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-70527087273779133822007-09-18T22:37:00.000-07:002007-09-20T12:30:46.069-07:00Another FarewellHoley! more people are leaving the bank. There seems to be staffing announcement every 2 weeks. This time it's Phuong's turn! Congrats! Your dream came true! Wish you best of luck in your new job.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-7195523995359879712007-09-12T13:03:00.000-07:002007-09-12T22:25:17.020-07:00I Thought of My Old ColleaguesAs I walked into Blackboard the other day to meet with Ray, I could see the walls are up. The old WebCT no longer exists. Although I don't work there, I can totally understand how Ray feels. This made me thought of my happy old days at the branch with my best colleagues. I thought of Kathryn, my good mentor and partner, who passed away not long ago. I thought of Vince everytime I pass by reception. I thought of Suzy who always tells funny jokes. There's a Chinese saying "桃花依旧,人面全非" Everything remains the same, except the people. I had a strong indescribable feeling, especially in the first 2 weeks of going back to work. I was very depressed. But reality tells me I have to look forward and do my very best. There's still a long path ahead of me. Looking back and thinking about the past is not going to get me anywhere.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-72208559835788389322007-09-10T22:50:00.000-07:002007-09-11T23:06:03.631-07:00Caitlyn's First StepAfter almost 14 months, Caitlyn can finally make her first independent steps. She has recently learned to stand up from a squatting position. Today, while I was playing with her, she stood up and started clapping her hands as usual. I reached out my hands and surprisingly, she took 3 steps and fell into my arms. It's an amazing experience to see how she develops and learns new skills.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-57763658492751348382007-09-05T22:51:00.000-07:002007-09-06T19:33:06.622-07:00Happy 2nd AnniversaryTime flies. It's our 2nd wedding anniversary today. I thought Ray would come up with some innovative ideas to celebrate this day, but unfortunately, he didn't!! <br />What happens to my rewards for working so hard in the past year? I'm a little disappointed. The good thing is, he still remembers what happened exactly 2 years ago...or maybe he doesn't. I guess men don't bother to remember or plan for surprises after they get married. <br /><br />We ended up going to our favourite Greek restaurant, a place where we have lots of memories. Nothing fancy, no pricy food, just a place for us to enjoy our meals and have some quiet moments. Although I didn't get a BIG surprise, I did enjoy our time together.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-79739104697287347582007-08-18T19:06:00.000-07:002007-08-19T22:46:46.262-07:00Friendship vs RealityI was hesitating for over a week whether I should blog this story, since my friend kinda got over with it. But it just gets on her nerves everytime she thinks about it...<br /><br />A friend of mine (A), and her 2 friends B and C are church friends. After knowing that Friend A needs a career change, Friend B offered to help her submit her resume to his organization. That's very nice of him, since he helped her speed up the process. Two weeks later, my friend received an invitation from the company to attend an info session. This is a good start, so she dressed up and went to the orientation. She was surprise to see one of her church brother there, and of course, he was also referred by Friend B. The info session went pretty well, very informative, however, a little disappointing. Job responsiblities and salary were unexpectedly disappointing. And she thought it's totally OK to talk about how she felt about the job description with this fellow brother and friend C. On a side note, Friend B and C are very close friends, to a point that we all think they are more than close friends. <br /><br />A few days later, my friend was fortunate enough to have a first interview. So once again, she made her trip to Surrey Central...looking fresh and professional, did her absolute best on the interview, except that she tripped on one question :P. So that was it, went home and waited for their reply. <br /><br />Here comes the climax of the story. A week after the interview, friend B sent my friend an email. He asked her not to stall the company and the hiring process, and that she should let them know if she's not interested in the position. Wasting other people's time is unethical and unprofessional. I was in SHOCK when I heard this. Wow...when did my friend get a job offer that she's not even aware of herself? She was like....XO&#Z%@X&..wth...<br /><br />I don't know what had happened or whether misunderstanding has occurred. However, as an adult, friend B should have been more responsible for his words. Until this moment, my friend is still confused about this whole thing. I don't know what advice to give her, all I can say is, think twice before expressing your thoughts to others, even to your close friends, especially when professionalism is involved.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-34215279671343443062007-08-07T22:15:00.000-07:002007-08-07T22:30:37.807-07:00First Day Back to WorkThe feeling was like a small child holding onto mommy and feeling nervous on the very first day of school. The difference is that I was holding onto Caitlyn and not wanting to step out of the house. It was tough, very tough, and not a good feeling. This is the only time that I hope I could make the clock stop moving. But at same time, I want the week to pass by quickly so we can see daddy again. Why is life full of contradictions? <br /><br />As a "new trainee" on the job, I had to spend the morning to familiarize myself with the new applications and switch myself back to the work mode. Then things started to come back after a little while, as if I was there sitting at the same spot yesterday. It's hard to believe, but it really did seem like yesterday to me. Hopefully things will go smoothly for the rest of the week.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-7453449469529154652007-08-06T12:25:00.000-07:002007-08-06T12:58:14.407-07:00A Tough Week AheadRay left to DC for a conference today. Before he left the house, he woke Caitlyn up for a big hug, and thanks to him, she didn't want to go back to sleep because it was almost 9:00am, normally she sleeps until 10. Since she wasn't fully awake...the way she snugs inside me tells me she's sleepy, I decided to put her back to bed, but the process took almost 3 hours. From past experience, I know the feeling is back again. Everytime Ray is out of town, I have depression or separation anxiety (yup, not just happen to babies), no exceptions this time. I guess mainly because he has become part of my everyday life, or my "daily bread". Just hope that the week will be over soon. <br /><br />It's time! I'll be officially back to work tomorrow, after staying home more than a year. Everything has changed, staff changed, management changed, computer system changed...I'll be a total new stranger. Hope I can adapt to the new work environment.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-69613141427630473192007-07-23T16:31:00.000-07:002007-07-23T17:42:33.601-07:00A Lost LambRecently I found myself lost in the deep woods, wandering deeper and deeper and not knowing what to do. I'm lost. Not mid-life crisis, I'm not there yet, but it's something worst. For the past few years, I've prayed and still praying, but it seems like my prayers have never been answered. I'm starting to feel the separation. My personal relationship with Him is no longer strong. Where's my shepherd?Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-71060783417965939922007-07-18T13:49:00.000-07:002007-07-19T15:02:31.557-07:00Happy 1st Birthday to Caitlyn<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFTaTNsJvVzj2saawnAOsKGTKupaf7_My5dyQTEag-wjmgogKkcwh6tvUHoaVFsW-eV_DRtxZdVo3GI04RfZjH17GecKcsHfDqDJlyzh0J0WbS1GEGTqalLMY2ZqnQuu4t572uSRcnraA/s1600-h/DSC_0141.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFTaTNsJvVzj2saawnAOsKGTKupaf7_My5dyQTEag-wjmgogKkcwh6tvUHoaVFsW-eV_DRtxZdVo3GI04RfZjH17GecKcsHfDqDJlyzh0J0WbS1GEGTqalLMY2ZqnQuu4t572uSRcnraA/s320/DSC_0141.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5089024474391257394" /></a><br /><br />One year ago at this time, I had a little bundle in my arms, crying helplessly for hunger. I spent nights and days comforting this little one and had to hold my breath everytime I put her down on the bed. Today, exactly a year later, I am still sitting on the same couch, still have the little one snugs in my arms, her face is still as sweet as a newborn when she sleeps. The difference is that she had turned into a little princess. All the memories, good and bad, came back as if they just happened yesterday. <br />Happy Birthday to my dear little princess!Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-43282394382683168082007-07-13T14:20:00.000-07:002007-07-17T17:24:24.240-07:00ScamsThis is not about MSN scams or emails from some security departments asking you to update your account info. This is a total scam from a large wireless service provider. A little more than a month ago, I called in to subsribe a communication value package and was told that I could get a month free trial. A month later, I called again and asked to switch to a lower price package since I don't need "Enhanced Voicemail" and they said I still have another 2 weeks before my free trial period expires...that's fine, and I thought everything is settled, until I received my statement today and noticed there were 2 charges, one was for the package I subsribed which was supposed to be free, the second charge is a prepayment for next month. My first response was to call them and inquire about the charges, and I was told that there were no messages in my file that indicated I have a free trial of the package and that I have to pay the full price. After complaining about the misrepresentation, they said they could waive half of the package fee, and that's it.<br /><br />Lesson to learn: Always ask for the name of the representative. I didn't bother to ask for her name since I trust the company. But this tells me that business is business, always ask for proof or records of all things we do.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-71998297722607262162007-07-03T17:52:00.000-07:002007-07-03T19:24:13.004-07:00Are You Smarter than a 5th Grader?I've never experienced such an intensive interview, it was even more intensed than the one I had when I joined the bank. The whole process took 2 hours, a major part of it was answering HR's favourite behavourial questions, the final half hour was a 10 page written test. What type of questions? Hmm..it's everything, testing your proofreading skill, vocab, basic math calculations, problem solving, logic, comprehension, and analytical skill. Here's an example of a basic math problem. 10 boxes of apples weigh 300 lbs, when emptied, each box weighs 3 lbs. What is the total weight of the apples? If you can answer this question, congrats, you are smarter than a 5th grader. Hope to see you on the show :PJoannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-74269650532819254192007-06-29T14:28:00.000-07:002007-06-29T14:45:37.815-07:00You Think You Can DanceI don't know where she learned it, but everytime she hears music, she would rock her body. It's difficult to capture her dance moves, she just doesn't cooperate.<br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="480" height="395" FLASHVARS="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:12/babycaitlyn/12.flv/sLJtjlM3pmetx7dKPd83CA/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=12&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://babycaitlyn.multiply.com" wmode="transparent"></embed>Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-32065569614663846342007-06-17T17:48:00.000-07:002007-06-29T14:28:40.479-07:00Customer ServiceEver since I set my path in a client-focused industry, I know how important it is to deliver and receive great customer service. You can make or ruin someone's day by that 3-minute conversation. In this job, I learned, and am still learning to say things in a more politically correct way. I have to admit that I am not a very well-rounded person, but common sense tells me what kinda tone I should use to avoid being blunt. Anyways, this entry is not about my job, it's about the service I got at Tim Hortons. I have to say that "everytime" I go there, something went wrong. At the one in Parksville, I waited more than 10 minutes for my order, then I realized they gave it to another customer. Yesterday we went to Michael's in Richmond. Ray suggested to have a light lunch, so we dropped in Tim Hortons next door. I was served by a trainee, beside him was his trainer. After answering them all the standard questions, the lady (trainer) took out 2 ceramic cups, and when I asked if I could have paper cups, she took a deep breath and let out a big sigh... <br />I got no instructions as where to pick up my order....I guess they assume everyone knows. Anyways, they got my food ready almost immediately this time. Then I noticed something was missing. That's it...it's the donuts! <br />We don't eat out at Tim Hortons very often, the main reason I go there is to get Timbits for my mother-in-law because they're her favorites (yea..I'm a good daughter-in-law :P) Everytime when I asked if they can give me the ones with fillings, they would stare at me and give me a weird/unfriendly look. Is something on my face?Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-56471808261623609002007-06-14T15:46:00.000-07:002007-06-14T16:27:10.429-07:00Caitlyn's first dental visitThe dental clinic was big, and scary! When we were led into the examination area, I started to get goose bumps, not because I was cold, it was all those tools and the row of exam chairs lining side by side that freaked me out. It was like being in a big dental lab, waiting to be examined. They are all pediatric dentists, but the setting is not too child-friendly, except that there are some stickers on the wall. I guess Caitlyn didn't know what was going on. She was placed on my lab facing me as I sat in the patient's chair and her head rested on the dentist's lab. I thought she would cry, but to our surprise, she did well. She was very brave :) The examination took less than a minute, and before she knew it, it was over. So there goes Caitlyn's first dental exam.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-83257258745801253462007-06-09T18:34:00.000-07:002007-06-09T19:10:07.385-07:00Caitlyn is learning to walkA few months back, I have uploaded Caitlyn's first crawl. Now she's learning to walk! It's really amazing to see how quickly she reaches her milestones.<br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:8/babycaitlyn/8.flv/4qobGdMfz9tOi,mUjfHyWg/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=8&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://ygrykdaasockoqlwtmrvhlj.multiply.com" wmode="transparent" height="395" width="480"></embed><br /><br /><br />She also learned to say and wave "bye bye"<br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:9/babycaitlyn/9.flv/Y36MewhdWjjBK4bPR5phlw/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=9&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://ygrykdaasockoqlwtmrvhlj.multiply.com" wmode="transparent" height="395" width="480"></embed><br /><br /><br />After going back and forward a few times, she finally decides to get down.<br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:10/babycaitlyn/10.flv/q5q6qWg4p9xqLQc5bWFQrg/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=10&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://ygrykdaasockoqlwtmrvhlj.multiply.com" wmode="transparent" height="395" width="480"></embed><br /><br /><br />Here she comes again, after less than a minute on the floor. This time her target is the electric outlet!<br /><br /><embed src="http://images.multiply.com/multiply/player2.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="vidurl=http://images.babycaitlyn.multiply.com/content/movie/babycaitlyn:video:11/babycaitlyn/11.flv/b3FKbHa5KqROtWrcq7r3eA/flash&vidlength=59&numericid=11&userid=babycaitlyn&baseurl=http://ygrykdaasockoqlwtmrvhlj.multiply.com" wmode="transparent" height="395" width="480"></embed>Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-63091866360721015162007-06-02T15:26:00.000-07:002007-06-03T22:05:50.393-07:00FatherhoodTo me, this term means more than just parenting. It also means nurturing. I believe today's family men are different than those of the past generations. It's not surprising to see a father feeding his baby, in fact, this is one way to share responsibilities and to bond with the child. I never thought this is an issue, until hubby said he wouldn't bottle feed Caitlyn in public! He said he doesn't want to make it a scene. Come on, I'm not asking him to breastfeed, what is he thinking? I personally find it very sexy to see a father feeding his baby. I really don't understand what's on Ray's mind.<br /><br />Talking about men, I'm not sure if other women share my point of view. I think it's totally OK for a man to cry, especially infront his loved one. It's a way of showing trust. It's just so sensual and affectionate. Ray, don't roll your eyes please! If women can express themselves explicitly, why can't men do the same? There's no point to cry under your blanket.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5221049442374505662.post-43261759074413977592007-05-30T13:52:00.001-07:002007-05-30T16:43:11.285-07:00Some Thoughts on a Hot Sunny DayThe same question has been floating on my mind for the past couple of days. Can someone not knowing how to strip the vein out of a celery stalk? I thought this is common sense until I realized there is actually someone out there who would use a peeler to scrape off the surface of the celery and thought that's the way to strip off the vein. Hmm...this person must be very lucky not having to worry about anything in the kitchen.Joannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03710950297212741317noreply@blogger.com5